<![CDATA[Need some advice...]]>K so since we dont have an "i feel like a fag for posting this" section, i'll just post it here.

I've been dating a girl for over a year and a half. Since the 6 month mark, we'v fought, broken up, argued and shit way more than the average couple (anyone who knows me can vouch for this). Anyways, once again we broke up. And I'm ready to be done with the whole thing, but its really fucking difficult. I've gotten to know here extended family, and she's been pretty much been accepted into my family as a family member, and now its just over. It was my first ever "real" relationship. I dont know what to say to her, what to do to make this time the last time we break up. We hang out like 18 hours a day, call and text eachother non stop and now, my life just feels silent. I like it but at the same time it sucks. If anyone has some legitimate advice i'de really appreciate it.
Thanks

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zbrown;180468 wrote:
the first long relationship is a bitch when it ends.....

i am finally done with my first evil bitch and finally have her out of my head, after 2 years now.
Now i have someone 33x's cooler we just mesh

it works out in the end

Now that you mention it I think we talked about this on the way home from Grand Forks... Oh BTW an old man with a mint T2 that lives by my parents wants to see your car...I figured you might want to see his. Original owner since 87. I ran into Him and told him about what you had done and how much power you were making, he didnt believe me.

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bubba;180466 wrote:
^ while he does that have him make your car start when u put in the clutch...lol j/k joel

AH that will never get old lol

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169904https://fargostreet.com/post/169904Thu, 16 Aug 2007 07:18:41 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Thu, 16 Aug 2007 06:03:24 GMT]]>the first long relationship is a bitch when it ends.....

i am finally done with my first evil bitch and finally have her out of my head, after 2 years now.
Now i have someone 33x's cooler we just mesh

it works out in the end

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169903https://fargostreet.com/post/169903Thu, 16 Aug 2007 06:03:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Thu, 16 Aug 2007 05:34:42 GMT]]>^ while he does that have him make your car start when u put in the clutch...lol j/k joel

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169901https://fargostreet.com/post/169901Thu, 16 Aug 2007 05:34:42 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Thu, 16 Aug 2007 04:58:30 GMT]]>Come over and help me figure out the clusterfuck that is my dash. That should eat a few months of your time and keep her out of your mind. I'm doing all sorts of fun things tomrrow (thur) and will be around most of the day. Call me up.

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169900https://fargostreet.com/post/169900Thu, 16 Aug 2007 04:58:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Thu, 16 Aug 2007 04:51:37 GMT]]>go make babies.....

lol

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169899https://fargostreet.com/post/169899Thu, 16 Aug 2007 04:51:37 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Thu, 16 Aug 2007 04:23:18 GMT]]>^ good ricer girls are hard to find, lol...i've tried.

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169896https://fargostreet.com/post/169896Thu, 16 Aug 2007 04:23:18 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 23:26:49 GMT]]>Joel this is just my 2 cents, find a girl that really makes you happy, everyones gonna fight and have disagreements about stuff in any relationship, but you guys seem to always be mad at each other when your together and what not, Syrie and I have a great time when we hang out with you (just you) but when you guys are together everything you do or say she complains about or tells you your stupid or something to that extent, and it gets a little annoying (nothing you can do about it) I say give it some time go out and have fun. Find a girl who really cares about you and doesnt hate your hobbies or lifestyle.

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169865https://fargostreet.com/post/169865Wed, 15 Aug 2007 23:26:49 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 23:16:20 GMT]]>Hey if you ever want to hang out to kill some of that silence, just give me a ring Joel. The only thing that will make you feel better is time.

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169862https://fargostreet.com/post/169862Wed, 15 Aug 2007 23:16:20 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 20:43:17 GMT]]>Joel youll be better off without her. Like you said your going to go to college soon and if you don't find a girl there something wrong with you. You need to just walk away from it and leave it alone.

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169848https://fargostreet.com/post/169848Wed, 15 Aug 2007 20:43:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 19:54:02 GMT]]>I'll say this: Don't burn any bridges. If you two are fighting all the time I think it's fair to suggest parting ways for a while while you (or she, but don't say that to her) grow up a bit. That said, if you can break up on "friendly" terms it could be... beneficial sometime down the road 😉

When you're a bit older (in terms of what you're after in a relationship), as weak as it sounds, it can be helpful to read books on relationships and how the male/female habits, thoughts, etc are different. Women are the trickiest thing most of us will ever deal with, and its something we spend the least amount of time learning about formally. Reading a book or two on the subject wouldn't kill anybody, and it was pretty helpful for me. My wife and I fight way less than we used to.

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169847https://fargostreet.com/post/169847Wed, 15 Aug 2007 19:54:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 19:40:07 GMT]]>If you want something to keep your mind off her, I have a little project (ok a lot of little projects) I'm starting on my car here shortly that I could probably use a hand or two with

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GarageAlchemist;180407 wrote:
You've been in more than just his shoes before.

lawl again.

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HandoEX;180393 wrote:
The best advice I can give to you Joel is date as many girls as possible and do everything to avoid a long term relationship for as long as you can. You're young and you won't be forever. The best thing you can do is date a lot of girls and see what you like and don't like in each of them so that when the right girl comes along down the road, you'll know she's the one for you.

^^That works.....You'll know when the time is right when you have the right girl.

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King Ricer;180338 wrote:
lol ive been in your shoes before and i know it sucks.

You've been in more than just his shoes before.

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T ! N;180376 wrote:
Is she hot?

LAWL

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169839https://fargostreet.com/post/169839Wed, 15 Aug 2007 18:42:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 17:06:10 GMT]]>The best advice I can give to you Joel is date as many girls as possible and do everything to avoid a long term relationship for as long as you can. You're young and you won't be forever. The best thing you can do is date a lot of girls and see what you like and don't like in each of them so that when the right girl comes along down the road, you'll know she's the one for you.

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169828https://fargostreet.com/post/169828Wed, 15 Aug 2007 17:06:10 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 16:50:14 GMT]]>Joel, same thing happend to me towards the beginning of the year. My ex and I had been together for little over 6 months, fit perfectly into each others families...etc. Well stuff happend (I screwed up, lol) and we broke up. At first it was pretty rough, but just go out and try to have fun and do anything to keep your mind off of her, other girls to do stuff with also works wonders, lol. Go out cruising and hang out with the guys, enjoy being single for a while, before you even think of getting into another relationship. From what i've seen all you guys did was fight 24/7, and it could get pretty annoying, and no offense but she had a horrible attitude and was probably the one to blame most of the time for it. Like when u got freaked out on for us going to get a bolt for Steve's bike, because it was your guys anniversary or some shit, and we were gone for like 30 min....

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169822https://fargostreet.com/post/169822Wed, 15 Aug 2007 16:50:14 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 13:51:13 GMT]]>Is she hot?

]]>https://fargostreet.com/post/169811https://fargostreet.com/post/169811Wed, 15 Aug 2007 13:51:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Need some advice... on Wed, 15 Aug 2007 04:21:32 GMT]]>GOOD PLAN your starting school anyways joel we had this discussion and like i said your best bet is to let go and take a nice break dont let your guys's relationship hold you back from anything! I mean i know your not holding yourself back from going to school for what she has said BUT you live here with me and it seems that you are holding yourself back from yourself if that makes any sense at all?!?!?! I have no idea you just never seem happy when your together or with her period! Hell me and you had a blast together today till she called you and then you were in instint crabby mode. Thats my .02

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King Ricer;180338 wrote:
lol. id say just let it go for good, it would be best for both of you. ive been in your shoes before and i know it sucks.

Thats the plan

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wannabe;180336 wrote:
don't be suprised if she comes knocking on your door for round 2! lol

lol. id say just let it go for good, it would be best for both of you. ive been in your shoes before and i know it sucks.

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