Fuck Douchebags
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You actually filed a sexual harassment complaint against a dude you work with?!?!? WTF? If I filed a complaint for every time I've been "sexually harassed" by the dudes I work with no one would work there...including me. Man up!!! It's called working in a shop. Guys have fun dicking around like that. Get used to it.
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Everyone deals with some bullshit like that. Some people just take it way too far. Ethan knows all about this ;). Nobdy HAS to deal w/ anything like that. And if it bothers someone that badly, they definitely have the right to file a complaint, or even press charges. Get something on video or audio tape so you have cold hard evidence.
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D S ohM;189671 wrote:
You actually filed a sexual harassment complaint against a dude you work with?!?!? WTF? If I filed a complaint for every time I've been "sexually harassed" by the dudes I work with no one would work there...including me. Man up!!! It's called working in a shop. Guys have fun dicking around like that. Get used to it.There is a difference between joking about it and when someone crosses the line. I'll make sexual jokes all day long with people and we have no issues with it. At the same time, someone who wasn't part of our group would look pretty weird coming in with the same stuff. I had a manger back at McDonalds who was like that, really creepy guy, and I was pretty close to doing something about him. Fortunately he went crazy and left the state.
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The fact that you filed a complaint and then he retaliated by writing you up, I believe, is illegal. You should have literature made available to you at work. If you have not read it I suggest you do and if you have reread it. If things are really "that bad" then maybe you need yo seek new employment or a consult a lawyer. I can't say I've been sexually harassed myself but I've had people say some rude and rediculas shit shit to me and I now they weren't just kidding around. I usually just chalk them up to ignorance.
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Sexal harassment isn't just physical. The comments that he was making made me uncomfortable and I put up with it for too long. The comment that threw me overboard was this comment. "Bob* gave me a compliment about Chris today. He said the only thing that that kid has got straight is the dick in his mouth!" This wasn't a one time deal during that shift either. It was said atleast 3-4 time earlier in the night. Go ahead Ohm tell me to man up and stop being a pussy. I don't care. I go to work to make money and become better at my skill/trade. I DON'T go there to be harassed and made uncomfortable. Call it shop play and harmless all you want but thats you. I was fed up with the shit he was giving me and I dealt with it by the book. You got a problem with the way I deal with shit too bad for you. Your not in my position. I finally found a career that I will stay with for a long time and im not going to let anyone fucking bring me down and make me feel like shit. Enough said.
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I get/give shit all the time. Its called having fun. I get told that "my package is nice" at least once a day. I know its harmless and thats why its funny. The dick in the mouth thing is fucking hilarious IMO. In all reality... I'll probably use that one tomorrow at work.
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It's just something that you have to learn to accept working in a shop setting. You need to learn to take a joke. Shoot shit at them. Ask them to get naked and armwrestle...thats always a good one. If that doesn't work, tell them you are going to skull fuck them until their rectum bleeds...
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No you do not <u>have</u> to accept it, its called harassment and that is why there are laws against it. If you don't have a problem with it then its playing around but if someone does its illegal and the petty bs of him writing you up after filing a complaint is grounds for a lawsuit, be sure to let him know that. Just be civil man tell him to dial it back a notch at least with you and he should be cool other wise take it to the next step hire a lawyer and he'll call the owner and the asshat will get fired so fast his head will spin.
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D S ohM;189860 wrote:
If the guy was actually gay and coming on to him I could actually understand the complaint. But if its just some guy fucking around, it shouldn't be taken seriously. My .02If the guy would have said it ONCE and left it at the I would have been fine with it but he has a problem with taking shit too far and I wasn't going to stand for it anymore.
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