The cheating bitch
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damn, that sucks mike, get back at that bitch somehow!
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Rexwagon;223471 wrote:
So do you know the 3 guys she was cheating on you with?what was that, chatty kathy? is this the bridge table? holy shit. no offense, man, but.. how the hell does that even figure in?
(though I'd say in this situation if any of us had known the guys, most of us no longer would "know" the 3 guys but "knew" them at one point.. before they disappeared..)
Step one: make good friends with your lawyer. Step two: get fucking tested, it's more than worth it. Step four is hopefully profit, somehow.
Sorry to hear about the situation.. this kind of shit makes me sick. there's a lot of absolute bitches out there masquerading as worthwhile human beings. I've met more than I've wanted to, as well. Keep us posted, and don't let her even attempt to come back.
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Have her out of the house, <u>do not discontinue any service contracts shared or taken care of by you</u>, talk to a lawyer, do not transfer any large sums of money out of joint accounts but have the limit on her debit card/credit cards reduced as far ass they can go. Then make sure to freeze any checkbooks that she might have.
Also, hope she isn't pregnant with your child.
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+1 to everything Colin said.
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Rexwagon;223483 wrote:
Holy Shit are you the forum Nazi? And I didnt ask you now did I? And like you would do anything to the three guys. Lawlzlol.. thanks for taking that exactly the way i meant it.. just more concerned for a guy in a shitty situation than i am for the make-it-worse-with-gossip side of it.
i'm gonna leave the 'like you would do anything' comment for now, though, time for work.
another +1 for what colin said.
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your guys posts are mildly interesting. Yesterday was a very tough day, talked to a lot of people I know and had help through it. My wife checked herself into Prairie last night, thats her other home it seems like, as she has been there 5 times since we have been together. And yes she is crazy, she is supposed to be on medication because she gets terrible mood swings. I knew I was marrying a crazy girl but I always thought it was under control and she seemed like it was fine. But I guess not. I talked to her dad yesterday too, he has been dealing with crap like this since she was 10 years old, I am surprised she hasn't driving her family crazy yet.
She told me twice yesterday that she cannot live without me, and has no reason to live if I leave her. She actually overdosed on sleeping pills yesterday, but I guess they were not strong enough to do much. At least thats what one of her friends told me.
SHe admits I never dd anything wrong, and she has a problem she couldn't stop, but she could never bring herself to tell me until almost 2 years after it started. Maybe things would have been fixable years ago, but now I am not sure. When someone you love with all your heart hurts you in the worst way, I don't see how you could ever feel the same way about them. I don't even think I could look at her the same anymore.
Well I am going to work, hopefully I can actually get work done.
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wa2fastcamaro;223507 wrote:
your guys posts are mildly interesting. Yesterday was a very tough day, talked to a lot of people I know and had help through it. My wife checked herself into Prairie last night, thats her other home it seems like, as she has been there 5 times since we have been together. And yes she is crazy, she is supposed to be on medication because she gets terrible mood swings. I knew I was marrying a crazy girl but I always thought it was under control and she seemed like it was fine. But I guess not. I talked to her dad yesterday too, he has been dealing with crap like this since she was 10 years old, I am surprised she hasn't driving her family crazy yet.She told me twice yesterday that she cannot live without me, and has no reason to live if I leave her. She actually overdosed on sleeping pills yesterday, but I guess they were not strong enough to do much. At least thats what one of her friends told me.
SHe admits I never dd anything wrong, and she has a problem she couldn't stop, but she could never bring herself to tell me until almost 2 years after it started. Maybe things would have been fixable years ago, but now I am not sure. When someone you love with all your heart hurts you in the worst way, I don't see how you could ever feel the same way about them. I don't even think I could look at her the same anymore.
Well I am going to work, hopefully I can actually get work done.
Looking at this from the blunt, outside point of view:
She fucked around and told you.
She has stated she doesn't intend to change her habits.
You tell her to leave.
She checks into Prairie and allegedly overdoses.
She says she is wrong but can't stop fucking other guys.
She wants another chance after she blew your trust and realizes she is now kicked to the curb.Funny how when the shit hits the fan, she then thinks it is wrong. Not once in the 2 years did she say anything. I mean, if she would have come to you after 1 time and said "I'm sorry, but I royally fucked up and slept w/ a guy" then maybe, MAYBE you give her a second chance...but not after she has been doing it for this long.
If you take her back, I'll personally kick your ass.
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It puts you in a shitty situation, but you can't take her back especially after that stuff. She may be using it to try and get you back, or she may actually feel that way, but if you take her back, she will continue what she is doing and know that she can control you. She is responsible for herself and you have no control over her and what she does, get going on the divorce and never look back. Im sorry man.
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from a girls perspective here.. i agree 100% with everyone else in saying do NOT take her back. it could've been fixable a long time ago, but her realization that she royally fucked up now after she's been doing it for this long is just ridiculous. i'd really like to know whats going on in her mind at the moment...
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The part the gets me is that she doesn't want to change her ways, doesn't want to be intimate with you, and wants to remain married.
If you take her back, she will know she can do pretty much whatever she wants with who ever she wants.
Also, she is starved for attention right now, don't buy into the almost overdosing BS. She is trying to flip this on you. She is trying to make YOU feel bad for what SHE did. She is saying you are killing her by not staying with her, which is complete bullshit.
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inspector01;223512 wrote:
get going on the divorce and never look back. Im sorry man.If you do look back make sure it's only to see what color/shape/texture the shit you left on her face was.
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