Need some advice...
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wannabe;180304 wrote:
K so since we dont have an "i feel like a fag for posting this" section, i'll just post it here.I've been dating a girl for over a year and a half. Since the 6 month mark, we'v fought, broken up, argued and shit way more than the average couple (anyone who knows me can vouch for this). Anyways, once again we broke up. And I'm ready to be done with the whole thing, but its really fucking difficult. I've gotten to know here extended family, and she's been pretty much been accepted into my family as a family member, and now its just over. It was my first ever "real" relationship. I dont know what to say to her, what to do to make this time the last time we break up. We hang out like 18 hours a day, call and text eachother non stop and now, my life just feels silent. I like it but at the same time it sucks. If anyone has some legitimate advice i'de really appreciate it.
ThanksYou hung out, talked, and texted way to much, is the first problem. Thats why you fought all the time and became dependant on it. Try hanging out w/ your friends more, her haning out w/ her friends more and not being dependant to hang out w/ each other and call w/ every update on your day.
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PSI2HI;180313 wrote:
You hung out, talked, and texted way to much, is the first problem. Thats why you fought all the time and became dependant on it. Try hanging out w/ your friends more, her haning out w/ her friends more and not being dependant to hang out w/ each other and call w/ every update on your day.I actually have to agree with this.
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Seriously Joel, thank god, you were a way happier person before you dated, and i regreted ever introducing you two to eachother. Let it go man. Hang out with the guys more, that will take care of the silence.
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I would agree with all of them. I understand that couple have their issues but you guys have way to many and i have told you that just ignore her for a week like i said and it just might settle down joel...
"tell the misses that thats how you got the man and thats how you KEEP the man
words to live by from the wise one"
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That's one thing I've noticed alot when (kids) get serious to quick in a relationship. The get soo burnt out on each other whole at the same time becoming sooo co-dependant on each other. It becomes one vicious cycle. And your relationship with your other friends usually suffers as a result. FUCK!!! take some time apart. Have real friends other than one another.
Rmember this..... If your going to end up together for the rest of your lives, then don't rush it all at once. Shit....You have a lifetime together to do things and you still need a life outside of each other to really co-exist. Otherwise there is going to be deep down resentment towards each other. I.E.... "it's because of him or her that I have no friends" Y'know, shit like that.
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I agree with most everything that has been said.
She's a nice girl and all (from what I've seen at least), but I have to admit, y'all do fight like a married couple.
I dunno dude, I'd just go with everyone else and say that, at the very least, take an extended break. Shit, get out, go race your car.
-Peter
1991 240SX
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Joel i know me and you have had some arguments before and im going to say i have to agree with every one.
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Afsil80;180332 wrote:
I agree with most everything that has been said.She's a nice girl and all (from what I've seen at least), but I have to admit, y'all do fight like a married couple.
I dunno dude, I'd just go with everyone else and say that, at the very least, take an extended break. Shit, get out, go race your car.
What car? my tempo? My red car is gone!
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wannabe;180336 wrote:
don't be suprised if she comes knocking on your door for round 2! lollol. id say just let it go for good, it would be best for both of you. ive been in your shoes before and i know it sucks.
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GOOD PLAN your starting school anyways joel we had this discussion and like i said your best bet is to let go and take a nice break dont let your guys's relationship hold you back from anything! I mean i know your not holding yourself back from going to school for what she has said BUT you live here with me and it seems that you are holding yourself back from yourself if that makes any sense at all?!?!?! I have no idea you just never seem happy when your together or with her period! Hell me and you had a blast together today till she called you and then you were in instint crabby mode. Thats my .02
"tell the misses that thats how you got the man and thats how you KEEP the man
words to live by from the wise one"
-weshole -
Is she hot?
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Joel, same thing happend to me towards the beginning of the year. My ex and I had been together for little over 6 months, fit perfectly into each others families...etc. Well stuff happend (I screwed up, lol) and we broke up. At first it was pretty rough, but just go out and try to have fun and do anything to keep your mind off of her, other girls to do stuff with also works wonders, lol. Go out cruising and hang out with the guys, enjoy being single for a while, before you even think of getting into another relationship. From what i've seen all you guys did was fight 24/7, and it could get pretty annoying, and no offense but she had a horrible attitude and was probably the one to blame most of the time for it. Like when u got freaked out on for us going to get a bolt for Steve's bike, because it was your guys anniversary or some shit, and we were gone for like 30 min....
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The best advice I can give to you Joel is date as many girls as possible and do everything to avoid a long term relationship for as long as you can. You're young and you won't be forever. The best thing you can do is date a lot of girls and see what you like and don't like in each of them so that when the right girl comes along down the road, you'll know she's the one for you.
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