Need some advice...
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Joel, same thing happend to me towards the beginning of the year. My ex and I had been together for little over 6 months, fit perfectly into each others families...etc. Well stuff happend (I screwed up, lol) and we broke up. At first it was pretty rough, but just go out and try to have fun and do anything to keep your mind off of her, other girls to do stuff with also works wonders, lol. Go out cruising and hang out with the guys, enjoy being single for a while, before you even think of getting into another relationship. From what i've seen all you guys did was fight 24/7, and it could get pretty annoying, and no offense but she had a horrible attitude and was probably the one to blame most of the time for it. Like when u got freaked out on for us going to get a bolt for Steve's bike, because it was your guys anniversary or some shit, and we were gone for like 30 min....
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The best advice I can give to you Joel is date as many girls as possible and do everything to avoid a long term relationship for as long as you can. You're young and you won't be forever. The best thing you can do is date a lot of girls and see what you like and don't like in each of them so that when the right girl comes along down the road, you'll know she's the one for you.
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King Ricer;180338 wrote:
lol ive been in your shoes before and i know it sucks.You've been in more than just his shoes before.
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HandoEX;180393 wrote:
The best advice I can give to you Joel is date as many girls as possible and do everything to avoid a long term relationship for as long as you can. You're young and you won't be forever. The best thing you can do is date a lot of girls and see what you like and don't like in each of them so that when the right girl comes along down the road, you'll know she's the one for you.^^That works.....You'll know when the time is right when you have the right girl.
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If you want something to keep your mind off her, I have a little project (ok a lot of little projects) I'm starting on my car here shortly that I could probably use a hand or two with
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I'll say this: Don't burn any bridges. If you two are fighting all the time I think it's fair to suggest parting ways for a while while you (or she, but don't say that to her) grow up a bit. That said, if you can break up on "friendly" terms it could be... beneficial sometime down the road
When you're a bit older (in terms of what you're after in a relationship), as weak as it sounds, it can be helpful to read books on relationships and how the male/female habits, thoughts, etc are different. Women are the trickiest thing most of us will ever deal with, and its something we spend the least amount of time learning about formally. Reading a book or two on the subject wouldn't kill anybody, and it was pretty helpful for me. My wife and I fight way less than we used to.
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Joel youll be better off without her. Like you said your going to go to college soon and if you don't find a girl there something wrong with you. You need to just walk away from it and leave it alone.
> Parker;299126 wrote:
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Joel this is just my 2 cents, find a girl that really makes you happy, everyones gonna fight and have disagreements about stuff in any relationship, but you guys seem to always be mad at each other when your together and what not, Syrie and I have a great time when we hang out with you (just you) but when you guys are together everything you do or say she complains about or tells you your stupid or something to that extent, and it gets a little annoying (nothing you can do about it) I say give it some time go out and have fun. Find a girl who really cares about you and doesnt hate your hobbies or lifestyle.
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bubba;180466 wrote:
^ while he does that have him make your car start when u put in the clutch...lol j/k joelAH that will never get old lol
"tell the misses that thats how you got the man and thats how you KEEP the man
words to live by from the wise one"
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zbrown;180468 wrote:
the first long relationship is a bitch when it ends.....i am finally done with my first evil bitch and finally have her out of my head, after 2 years now.
Now i have someone 33x's cooler we just meshit works out in the end
Now that you mention it I think we talked about this on the way home from Grand Forks... Oh BTW an old man with a mint T2 that lives by my parents wants to see your car...I figured you might want to see his. Original owner since 87. I ran into Him and told him about what you had done and how much power you were making, he didnt believe me.
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