The cheating bitch
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SPANISH-RICE;223735 wrote:
you shouldnt have to defend why you delete posts, but when its in RYM i dont think you should be able to pick and choose when you are or are not going to go with the rules of the forum.hes gotta understand that when you put something like that on the internet it can only stay so serious for so long. no one is trying to be an ass their just trying to add some comic relief and get rid of the cloudiness around this thread.
Please send me a link where it states "Posts may not be deleted in RYM". I agree with you that it is not always serious and a lot of stuff is fair game on here. Just some things are inappropriate and need to be taken care off. If your wife just cheated on you, I dont think you would want "send me nudes" or "give her the donkey punch comments" either. If it is that bad on FS, I know of another sweet forum where everything goes no matter what. www.mistercmk.com He never deleted a thread or post there in his life.
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I gotta agree with Smit here... although it is RYM, a situation like this does not need the immature little kid comments. Yes, it's RYM where anything goes. But he was also venting his rage, which is where this thread would belong.
There's comical relief, then there is complete immaturity. Maybe 2 of the 10 or so posts that were deleted were comical relief. The rest were just a waste of space that Mike probably didn't need to read in a situation like this.
Use your head (the one between your shoulders, not your legs.)
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SmitEvo;223749 wrote:
Please send me a link where it states "Posts may not be deleted in RYM". I agree with you that it is not always serious and a lot of stuff is fair game on here. Just some things are inappropriate and need to be taken care off. If your wife just cheated on you, I dont think you would want "send me nudes" or "give her the donkey punch comments" either. If it is that bad on FS, I know of another sweet forum where everything goes no matter what. www.mistercmk.com He never deleted a thread or post there in his life.Lol, you sure do have a hard-on for my website. That must be why you keep mentioning it when nobody else does.
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MisterCMK;223752 wrote:
Lol, you sure do have a hard-on for my website. That must be why you keep mentioning it when nobody else does.you have a website? lol...
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SmitEvo;223749 wrote:
I know of another sweet forum where everything goes no matter what. www.mistercmk.com He never deleted a thread or post there in his life.Not true, I've deleted posts on there before.
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On a serious note, a thread lock would have been more appropriate in my opinion.
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weshole;223777 wrote:
I wouldn't be posting something of this sensitive nature on a public forum.Touche...but since he did, most of the members tried to give him worthy advice. You have to realize he is going through a tough time and was looking for some help.
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aside from the angry pirate/dirty sanchez/hot carl my advice is what I would have done (and in some cases what I did do)...if I thought I coulda pulled off one of the above w/ my ex, I would have tried that too....
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I see the drama will never change on this forum. It is mildly amusing watching you guys argue about what can be posted and whats appropriate. Sometimes its like talking to a bunch of little kids, lol.
On a more serious note. I have have had a few long conversations with my wife, she wants to make things work, but I can't accept that now.
I am going to a counseling session with her and a therapist Friday morning and maybe that will help us both get our feelings out and find a way to individually cope with things.
Very difficult situation, its really had to throw away a life you built with the person you love. Sometimes I wish I could just say to her I never want to see her again and that would be it and never see or talk to her again, but yet part of me still wants her in my life. She insists she will stay on meds and keep getting help if their is a chance our relationship will continue. I have decided I am going to get it a little time to see how things turn out. I am not going to help her at all and still am separating from her and make her do things on her own. I want her to see what she did to me, how I feel and how wrong what she did was. Maybe she is telling me the truth and her illness clouded her judgment, and maybe not. But she seems pretty determined to do whatever it takes to stay in my life. But she has to figure this out for herself.
She actually admitted to me that all our relationship problems have always been her fault but she always blamed me, because she couldn't handle it herself. She has a problem where she really hates herself and in turn hates everyone else and makes them feel like crap too. I did all I could in the past and even changed a lot for her, but it didn't help. So maybe with some time, help or professionals and her friends she can overcome that and lead a normal life. Otherwise if she cannot, I do not want to have any part in her life even again.
Thats how I feel at the moment, take it as you want. But if you were in the same position, it would be difficult for you also.
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